IS/WAS?

OK...so it's been a little over a month since we got married. That means it's been a little over a month since the missing groomsman (aka Kurtiss) didn't show up to be a groomsman. At this point, he's not missing. Now he's just dissing. Not cool.

Early on, I thought about sending him a nasty email, but what's the point? What are the chances he's really going to read it? And it's not like we don't know what happened to him. Apparently, we don't rank. Even asked him the day after our wedding, as we were heading out for our honeymoon, to call us just to let us know that he was alive. Did he call? Hellllll noooo... We found out from Gerry (thanks dude! at least he called you back...) Ya know, we accept that he's a bit spastic (aren't we all to some point?). Realize that he has a tendency to be a bit irresponsible and wild, and that's fine! Part of what we love about him. But we soooooo didn't think he would choose our wedding day (or the night before...) as the time to partake. Good thing he wasn't the best man! I seriously hope he doesn't think that by not contacting us at all that it's all going to blow over. Forgive and forget? I tink that requires some kind of an apology of some sort first? Maybe he doesn't care about his friendships, certainly makes one wonder if he was really a friend. He is/was more of a Ray friend than a Mandi friend. But we were all friends, he is/was just closer friend of Ray's than mine. So, as far as I'm concerned...this is just rude. And he's more of a WAS than an IS...